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BECOMING GANDHI:

My Experiment Living the Mahatma’s 6 Moral Truths in Immoral Times

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PUBLISHED IN JANUARY 2024,
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Book Reviews

“I have always believed that the best way to preserve the legacy of the great statesmen of the past is to try to abide by the values they upheld and to apply them in our contemporary situation. I am glad to see that writer Perry Garfinkel has done precisely that with Mahatma Gandhi and shares his experiences in this book. The author provides readers with an opportunity to discover the many ways in which Gandhi-ji contributed to making the world a better place and what each of us may learn from his example.” ―His Holiness the Dalai Lama, from his foreword to Becoming Gandhi

“Perry Garfinkel’s engaging and delightfully funny Becoming Gandhi shows us how the Mahatma’s message can matter in our lives. Brilliant. Highly recommended.” ―Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence and most recently Why We Meditate, with Tsoknyi Rinpoche

“It is beautiful to be inspired by Gandhi. It is even more amazing to learn to embody his love and freedom, honesty and blessings in our own lives. Perry shows us how this is possible.” ―Jack Kornfield, author of A Path with Heart and cofounder of the Insight Meditation Society

“With self-effacing humor and an in-depth journalistic approach, Garfinkel opens a door to the possibility of living with the moral fortitude of Gandhi himself. Part travel book, part history of Gandhi, and part personal well-being journal, it's a fascinating read.” ―Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness and Real Life

“In this timely book, Perry Garfinkel writes, ‘Truth is elusive and mercurial.’ What is not elusive or mercurial is the brilliance of this book, rich with anecdotes, humor, and wisdom. Perry takes us on a journey with Gandhi, almost literally step-by-step. As a memoir of spiritual travel, this is the medicine we all need in these times―truly an inspiration. And that’s the truth.” ―Nancy Slonim Aronie, author of Writing from the Heart and Memoir as Medicine

“Engaging and insightful, Becoming Gandhi is one man’s quest to follow the footsteps of Gandhi and rediscover the moral compass that has been abandoned by today’s culture of me-centered, instant gratification. In reading, we are inspired to reflect on our own journey and what it means to align our life with our heart.” ―Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance and Trusting the Gold

“Gandhi was truly one of the last figures of the European historic colonial period and all that was linked to it. As a Brit of Bangladeshi (and therefore historic Indian) descent, I still struggle to find our colonial past in our education system. I welcome writers like Perry who are able to transcend cultural barriers. As he writes, ‘All I need to do is take the blinders off and look for the clues along the way.’ Writing about historic events or persons is nothing new, but what is important is that Perry makes Gandhi relevant today!” ―Munsur Ali, chairman of Culture, Heritage and Libraries Committee, City of London, and film producer

“What would it be like to live like Gandhi? Garfinkel finds out, not just by reading Gandhi’s words but by living Gandhi’s truths. Garfinkel’s struggle to abide by Gandhi’s morality becomes a complex meditation on the struggle to be good, and what ‘good’ even means in our own troubled times. By engaging with Gandhi’s personal code of ethics, Garfinkel makes Gandhi come alive and challenges us to think seriously about what principles we cherish.” ―Andy Rotman, professor of religion, Buddhist studies, and South Asian studies, Smith College

“An integrated view of Mahatma Gandhi’s life and thought based on a careful analysis of some of his guiding principles, Becoming Gandhi illuminates areas that usually get ignored and offers a theoretically insightful and practically rich view of how to lead a Gandhian, or Gandhi-like, life in the modern world. The book also uses Gandhi to understand the nature of religious faith and to mark a moving personal journey from Judaism to Buddhism via Hinduism.” ―Bhikhu Chhotalal Parekh, British House of Lords and author of Rethinking Multiculturalism

“My great grandfather, Mahatma Gandhi, used to say with amusement that he was like a magnet attracting all the faddists and nutcases of the world. When Perry approached me with his idea of living like Gandhi, my first thought was, here’s a nutcase who believes that in today’s time he can live the simple, frugal, and abstemious life that Bapu lived, and that too as an American. His journey was three folds: discovering and understanding Gandhi, not just the man but his belief; discovering the land and people of Gandhi’s India; and most important, testing himself by taking on the challenge of living according to the tenets of Gandhi, as many as he could. The other search was also to see where Gandhi was at present in the land he helped liberate. Was he at all there? Was he relevant? Did he matter? In writing it, Perry has imbibed Bapu’s wry sense of humor. This book is the result of Perry’s adventurous spirit, to go where not many dare to go, of never giving up. And above all, because he is a nutcase. Who else would have done what he has in today’s time? The book is definitely a must-read. Sail on, my dear friend.” ―Tushar Gandhi, sociopolitical activist and author of The Lost Diary of Kastur, My Ba and Let’s Kill Gandhi

Simon & Schuster India, September 2023
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In A Man’s World: Father, Son, Brother, Friend and Other Roles Men PlayNew American Library, 1985
Mentor Books, 1986

"Startling and revealing...Gets to the heart of male-to-male relationships." – Washington Post

"A no-nonsense thoroughly researched book by a tough-minded author who ends on a positive note..." – San Francisco Chronicle

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Ten Speed Press, 1993
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Travel Writing for Profit & Pleasure

Plume, 1988

"The definite work in the field." – Arthur Frommer
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Buddha or Bust: In Search of Truth, Meaning, Happiness and the Man Who Found Them All

Crown/Harmony, 2006
Three Rivers, 2007

“As a raconteur of the Dharma, Garfinkel is as lively a guide as anyone could hope for – Woody Allen in the footsteps of the Buddha.”
– Daniel Goleman, “Emotional Intelligence”

"Fast enough for the beach yet dense enough for the scholar's library… As John McPhee and Paul Theroux offer lush descriptions of physical landscapes in their works, Garfinkel surveys the internal world with equal scrutiny."
– John Budris, Boston Globe

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Alla ricerca del Buddha

Sonzogno, 2007, Italy
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Buda ou Desapego

Rocco, 2007, Brazil
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Ghost writer/Collaborator

Why Kids Lie: How Parents Can Encourage Truthfulness

Penguin 1991
by Paul Ekman, Ph.D., UC San Francisco
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KidStress: What It Is, How It Feels, How to Help

Penguin, 2000
by Georgia Witkin, Ph.D.
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Why Can’t I Fall in Love?
A 12-Step Program

Harper Collins, 2001
by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
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(all Rodale Press, 1996-97)

The Male Body: An Owner’s Manual

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Stress Blasters: Quick and Simple Steps to Take Control and Perform Under Pressure

Command Respect: Cultivate the Qualities that Inspire and Impress Others

Maximum Style: Look Sharp and Feel Confident in Every Situation

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“Narrating his observations of contemporary Buddhist practice and meetings with Buddhists in situations that include traditional Buddhist strongholds East and West, Perry Garfinkel presents Buddhism as a practical approach to human problems.”
– His Holiness the Dalai Lama